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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 08:38

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What can help me fall asleep at night?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I'm looking for an answer from people who consider themselves "Gender Critical", or transphobic, or TERFs, and my question is this - Why would you refuse to use the pronouns someone wants? What does it cost you? Where's the harm?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do you remember one day, you put a deep smile on someone's face and made them very happy?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How does an experienced gay/bi guy handle a bi-courius guy on his first time?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

My religion teacher said that there are no atheists because in order to reject God, you must first have a concept of God, and if you have a concept of God, you are not an atheist. In what way is this true, if at all? Why?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What kind of person does a narcissist hate?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What does it mean when I have a dream where my friend died? I had this dream last night where one of my friends died in a shootout and I woke up crying.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

Do you anal play alone?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

That's it for today.

Do you have any problem dating a younger man?

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do wokes use words like "homophobes" when they don't know what that means? Do they realize that no one is afraid of them?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Why do some people dislike Gilmore girls?

What I need from you?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What are some life hacks for living on your own?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can parents identify and address early signs of racial bias in young children?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What are the reasons for your political affiliation with the Democratic party? What are some aspects of the party that you support and some that you do not?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.